fear of success

If you don't try, then you fail, that's a fact. but if you do try, you might succeed, and that would be nice, but what happens if you do try, but you still fail?? that's the no fun part. so, sometimes, it's easier to not try, because it's easier to fail if you don't try, whereas if you fail but you did try, that's the one that hurts.  gotta get around that...